How Do You Like Me Now? by Holly Bourne

How Do You Like Me Now?

'Turning thirty is like playing musical chairs. The music stops, and everyone just marries whoever they happen to be sitting on.' Who the f*ck is Tori Bailey?There's no doubt that Tori is winning the game of life. A straight-talking, bestselling author, she's inspired millions of women around the world with her self-help memoir. And she has the perfect relationship to boot.But Tori Bailey has been living a lie.Her long-term boyfriend won't even t...

Details How Do You Like Me Now?

TitleHow Do You Like Me Now?
Release DateJun 14th, 2018
PublisherHodder & Stoughton
GenreContemporary, Fiction, Adult, Womens Fiction, Chick Lit

Reviews How Do You Like Me Now?

  • Warda
    My god, this was difficult to read and get through. This book is about Tori, an author who from the outside is someone that seems to have everything life has to offer. A great career, a great guy, a bestselling book, great friends, she’s travelling the world and inspiring millions. Little do people know what really is happening. I mean, what’s the word that tops honesty and rawness? Reading this book made me feel fuckin uncomfortable. Mainly ...
  • Emer
    I have somewhat of a *colourful* history with Holly Bourne. I've read the majority of her YA novels and I find her brand of writing to be somewhat limited in its viewpoint, especially when it comes to feminism. I feel she overcooks her novels with issues that sort of bash you across the head with feminism at the expense of narrative and character development. Particularly with her male characters. So it was incredibly interesting to read her firs...
  • Stacey (prettybooks)
    "Turning thirty is like playing musical chairs. The music stops, and everyone just marries whoever they happen to be sitting on." Holly Bourne is known for writing relatable teenagers (such as the Spinster Club girls), but, as a 28-year-old, How Do You Like Me Now? is her most relatable novel (for me) so far. I keep telling friends – all in their mid-to-late 20s – to read it as soon as it's out, messaging screenshots of paragraphs eerily si...
  • Liz Barnsley
    This book made me laugh SO MUCH and made me cry a bit too - clever, insightful, you'll find yourself nodding along to so much in this especially if you are in or have been in your 30's - that in between time when you are supposed to have thrown away childish things but are still not a fully formed adult (I actually believe very few people morph into full on adulthood I think we all remain kids at heart for the majority of our lives) Holly Bourne ...
  • Gabby
    Thanks Netgalley for sending me this ARC in exchange for an honest review!08/03/18 - so I've been thinking about this one a lot and I'm going to have to give it a reread because I'm disagreeing a lot with what I've said-----I've liked every single one of Holly Bournes novels that I have read. Am I Normal Yet?, What's a Girl Gotta Do? and most recently, It Only Happens in the Movies. All of these novels have held something special for me: whether ...
  • Kat
    Though I can see I'm in the minority (welcome to my life), I found this book almost intolerable. I disliked it pretty fast but optimistically kept reading hoping I'd like it further on. I ended up only finishing it coz I knew I'd be done within hours.Having said that, I'm clearly not the target market. Where Tori just wished she wasn't mainstream and only kept up the pretense because her writing career pushed her that direction, I guess you could...
  • Trish at Between My Lines
    Somehow I never wrote a review for this book. And that makes this reviewer feel all kinds of awful, as this book was all kinds of wonderful. And I figure it's never too late to shout from the rooftops about how much I loved it.The main character was one I loved to hate, while at the same time I hated to love her. I was conflicted but intrigued. Tori is messed up. Striving to be authentic on social media, but in a very contrived artificial way. Cr...
  • Kirsty Stanley
    HDYLMN was not a completely enjoyable read for me (it kept hitting a nerve) but it was a very important one. It has been proposed that often books might come along when we need them. This was Authentic, Raw and Validating. It's also very contemporary and real. I have definitely had variations of the discussions in this book with friends and family. Holly has an ability to tap into the collective consciousness of women and girls. During reading th...
  • Sarah
    A bit of a mixed bag. I found myself enjoying and relating to certain aspects of the plot (how life takes a shift towards the end of your 20s/early 30s) but totally frustrated by others (namely how self absorbed Tori was, although I get that we aren't supposed to like her all the time). I get some of the hype surrounding this but the second half felt way too dragged out - I just wanted more character development!
  • Catherine Doyle
    LOVED this
  • Odette Knappers
    Oh, wat was ik enthousiast toen ik zag dat HarperCollins Holly Bourne ging vertalen. Ik ben echt megagroot fan van haar Spinster club serie (Am I Normal Yet?, How Hard Can Love Be? en What's a Girl Gotta Do?) Ik hoop nog steeds heel erg dat ze deze serie ook gaan vertalen.Maargoed, dan dit boek. Één van mijn favoriete schrijfsters die een moderne Bridget Jones schrijft? Ik wilde het meteen lezen. Het lag voor mij in de lijn der verwachting van ...
  • Chantal (Every Word A Doorway)
    4.5 starsWow. That was totally unexpected. How Do You Like Me Now? is such a page-turner yet at times difficult to read for the simple fact that it is SO. DARN. RELATABLE. I mean, it actually scares me how relatable considering I'm 10 years younger than the protagonist.This story is a critical, self-aware look at how ageing is perceived in our society, the impact social media is making on our lives, and the pressures of being someone in the publi...
  • Sharon
    Tori Bailey has it all - because she has figured out that you don't need it all. She has written a successful book about how to navigate your twenties in your own way, and people have lapped it up. She has a worldwide fan base, hoardes of fans on social media, and a wonderful boyfriend, Tom. But in reality, Tori doesn't know what she's doing. All her friends are moving on and doing "proper grown up" things, her own social media streams are full o...
  • Annalise
    It’s time to review a book I read a while back and LOVED (I swear one day the paces of my reading and reviewing will match!)If you’re a Young Adult Fan, chances are you already know (and love!) Holly Bourne’s books - she has given us the fantastic Spinster Club series and a myriad of other delectable stand-alones - most recently It Only Happens In The Movies, with her next book Are We All Lemmings and Snowflakes out on August 9th.Holly’s ...
  • Ellesha
    Holly Bourne is my favourite author and I have been waited MONTHS to read this book and the day finally came! I went to her book opening in London to receive my copy and I started reading it as soon as possible. (I was finishing a book at the time, so did not put that down until I finished it so I could start this one!) I had high hopes for this book, and it definitely did not disappoint! (I would just like to add that she stated she wrote the fi...
  • Manon
    *4.75 stars*It grabbed me and I could barely put it down.Holly Bourne is definitely one of my favorite authors.
  • Daphne (Illumicrate)
    This book is fantastically brilliant. It's a witty, unflinchingly honest, funny/sad mirror into adulting. It's that shock you get when you hit your 30s and you inevitably ask yourself, 'What the f*ck now?', in book form. Honestly, whatever age you are, this book will speak to you. Whatever you're worried about in your life at the moment, this book will speak to you. Whatever you don't like about yourself, this book will speak to you. It will spea...
  • Nkisha
    I received an advance copy of this from Netgalley in exchange for a review, cheers Netgalley I’m so grateful!! I loved this book so much such that I ended up reading it in two days, when I suppose to be working on my university assignments. When I first requested this, I was little bit apprehensive because I’m such a huge fan of Holly Bourne’s YA books I didn’t want to be let down by this and thankfully I wasn’t. The story is about Tori...
  • Kwante in Wonderland
    Recognizing so much in this one 💕 laughed and cried! Review will follow on my blog soon!
  • Rachael
    There better be a book two.A powerful story about a horrible, emotionally abusive relationship. It's hard to walk away from a relationship, really hard. But sometimes you have to do it no matter how scary life could be afterwards. My heart breaks for Tori.Holly is brilliant with her feminist writing. I was swept along, even hating Tori to begin with, all the social media moments had me rolling my eyes.Very good. Very sweary sweary. Very heart-bre...
  • Ben Babcock
    This first paragraph is just me screaming really loudly and enthusiastically because yessssss another Holly Bourne novel and this one is for adults!! I am an unapologetic fan of everything Bourne writes. Her young adult Spinster Club trilogy is incredible. Now she has a book out about adulting and relationships, and it is just as brilliant.How Do You Like Me Now? is the story of Tori Bailey, who wrote a bestselling memoir of her twenties but now,...
  • Hannah
    I hint at spoilers in this review- nothing is explicit but if you've just started the book you may want to stop reading I received this book from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review I have some very mixed feelings about this book and I think most of them come from not quite being the target audience. I am in my mid-twenties and found it very difficult to relate to Tori (for many reasons) and am not at the point where I'm worrying about l...
  • Alison
    Wow..this book!!! There is just so much about it that is just so real and so relevant. There were so many times I found myself thinking "YES!!!!" and I think I've highlighted half the book as it just spoke to me.This is my first book from Holly Bourne (and the first adult book she's written) but it won't be the last. From the blurb I was expecting the standard chick lit or romcom type book that is all too common but this has so much more depth an...
  • Nana
    When this one came out, I had the feeling I wanted this book at no matter what cost. Luckily for me, I went to the UK in July, so I could bought this one sooner than expected. And guess what? It did not disappoint. I had no idea what to expect from this debut adult novel of Bourne, but it turned out that it was the book that I needed more in my life than I realised. Being over my mid-twenties, not knowing if I’m still an young-adult are an adul...
  • Arila
    Ok guys, this really hit home and I've probably liked it so much because of that! I've recently turned 30 and I'm single, so I really understand all the social pressure discussed in this book. You can let if affect you or not, but it's there. I love this book because it's totally honest, to the point of being a little bit unconfortable. For example, if your BFF finds the love of her life or have a baby you should be happy for her, but for at leas...
  • Eeva
    I have pretty mixed feelings about this book.I did enjoy it, but I didn't love it.I didn't particulary like the MC, but I guess that was the point of this book. All the things we read about in "How do you like me now" are funny just because they're true - men wanting an applause for not being assholes, people thinking that you career is irrelevant unless you have a kid, people telling you "you'll understand when you have your own" like wanting a ...
  • Laurinde Koster
    The good thing about having a train delays in the morning is that you finish a book in a day. This was brilliant. Thank f*ck for the person who wrote this
  • K.A. Merikan
    Savage! Tori is both awful and relatable, funny, smart, and yet so, so lost. I love that a female character gets to be all these 'bad' qualities, and yet the writing has so much compassion for her.The e-mails with the editor were the essence of British passive aggressive politeness.I loved the dark comedy of it all and the poignancy of the realism in this story.